I tend to be a "fixer". If someone I love has a problem, I do what I can to try to help fix the situation. The problem is, that even though I don't mean to be, I can sometimes seem pushy. Yikes! My oldest, Aly, had the best advice for me there. She said "Sometimes, you just need to listen and wait for the invitation for advice." Very good advice! There's also some great advice from Heidi with The Conscious Perspective. She says to be sure to only mention your thoughts a time or two, and then just let it go.Take a look,  she has some other great ways to not cross the line over into "pushy".